wellll basically the friends zone to a guy is where chances of being with a girl dissapear. because once your in the friend zone with a girl your going to stay there unless theres some miraculous reason why she takes out of it. so when a girl tells you your like her best friends thats when you learn that she has absolutely no feelings for you what so ever. guys and girls have different perspectives of their "best friend". when a girl thinks of their "best friend" they believe that person is there to listen to their problems, care for them you know stuff like that. now a girl wants a guy who listens to their problems, care for them be there for them in their time of need, but girls never look to there best friend when they're looking for such things. now the guys perspective of the "best friend" is wow this girl knows me well, she can make me laugh, i can spend hours with her and not be annoyed by her, she knows how to make me laugh you know what i think i can really see myself with her. now girls dont think like this at all. now i know girls are probably saying well what if something goes wrong and our relationship will be ruined. well ladies if the guy is truly your best friend and they care bout you that much they would make it work. i mean i know i would. you guys are blinded by the barrier you put up to your best friend and that barrier is called the friend zone.